Thank you again to all those who responded to our recent Survey on Sunday Worship: there were 70 returns, which is impressive! Trustees have considered the feedback carefully, and have agreed the following Sunday pattern with effect from October 4, 2020:


9:00 am         Zoom Liturgy at Home

10:30 am       Sung Mass in Church


We realise that this was not an option offered in the Survey, but have reached this conclusion because a) in the light of the current Covid-19 constraints and surrounding uncertainty we cannot easily support two “in-person” services, and b) from the Survey it appears more would attend in person at 10:30 am. We hope to sustain this pattern until the end of the year, but we shall keep it under review.


The Zoom Liturgy will keep its current form. At the 10:30 am Mass there will be organ and some singing, initially by a single cantor. We hope it may be possible ere too long to have a quartet singing. It will be some considerable time before congregational singing is permitted. There will be limited if any ceremonial. As now, the congregation will be expected to wear masks, and to maintain physical distance. When numbers approach 50, it will be even more important for parishioners to register their attendance with the Parish Office, [email protected]


Trustees have taken note too of the encouraging number of responses to the open questions in the Survey, for which again thanks. We will bear these in mind as we move forward.


We recognise that this decision will not meet with universal approval, but respectfully request everyone’s patience and forbearance in these unsettled times. Our earnest hope is to sustain and develop the St. James’ sense of community, and through the continued offering of worship to offer “Benedictine” stability.


Every blessing,

Fr. Kevin

Download the Sunday service booklet here: Liturgy at Home Pent 16 Sept 20 2020

Mother of Sorrows


Extract from a letter of Brother James Koester, Superior of the Society of St. John the Evangelist in Boston, reflecting on the death of Brother David Allen, SSJE, the longest serving member of the Society.


My dear friends,

[Reflecting on Brother David’s death,] I was aware that this has been a season of loss for so many. Countless numbers among us have lost loved ones, financial security, jobs, ready access to family and friends, to name a few. The toll of these last months is incalculable, and just as our grandparents or great grandparents spent the rest of their lives living with the double grief of World War I and then the Flu Epidemic of 1918 – 1919, we will live with the grief of these months, for the rest of our lives.

As any who have experienced the death of a loved one will know, you never get over it. Instead, all you can do is learn to bear it, usually by leaning on another.

One of my favourite icons is of the Crucifixion. There in the center of the image is Christ, hanging on the cross. On one side is the Beloved Disciple and the soldier traditionally named Longinus. It was he who pierced Christ’s side with his spear. But it is the cluster of women standing on the other side that always moves me. There we see Mary, the Mother of the Lord, literally being held up by four other women as she gazes upward upon her dying son. I cannot imagine her grief and sorrow. What I can imagine is the consolation she experienced surrounded, and upheld, by friends in her time of loss.

Like Mary, for many this has been a time of incalculable loss and grief. Like Mary we too need the support and consolation of others. For the last several days, Mary, the Mother of the Lord – sometimes referred to as Our Lady of Sorrows because of the grief she bore – has been my companion. She knows what it is to be gripped by grief.

If you need the support and consolation of others in your time of grief and loss, in your prayer, you might ask Blessed Mary to stand beside you, and hold you up, for she is also known as Mary, Consoler of the Afflicted. At the same time, you may know someone who needs to be consoled. Now is the time to reach out to them, and hold them up, as those women in the icon held up the Lord’s Mother. It may be that even in your grief and loss, you have the strength and courage to hold and console another.

However you find yourself in these days of grief and loss, know that we Brothers stand beside you, holding you up in our prayers. And may you find that the companionship of Our Lady of Sorrows, who is also Mary, Consoler of the Afflicted, gives you the strength and courage to face whatever the days ahead bring.


The Feast of Our Lady of Sorrows is marked on 15 September.

Download the Sunday service booklet here: Ver 2 Liturgy at Home Holy Cross Sept 13 2020