One of the topics we discussed in this week’s bible study was the Samaritan leper’s gratitude for what had been done for him, and the question of whether gratitude was a ‘deep’ enough takeaway from this week’s lesson. Now, the theological depth these folks are capable of is indeed impressive, so I understand why the question was asked. And, by the end of the study, we had each concluded that to be more grateful for the moments of grace in our own lives was the most helpful takeaway for our own discipleship, so I think we answered the question – yes, it is!
I notice that when I begin a pattern of thinking, it often becomes a road I travel on for some time. Which can be good or bad, depending on what exit I’ve taken! For example, if I have been through a few unfortunate events within a short time frame, I might now be more likely to notice the other disappointments and roadblocks in my life. Whereas, if I have had a few back-to-back moments of grace or joyful serendipity, I am more likely to notice the other smooth roads and unexpected moments of beauty in my life.
The point is, our brains are designed to notice patterns; they seek coherence, stability, and structure. So, what we tell them to notice, they will notice more of, whether negative or positive. Gratitude (for all its modern cultural cliché) is actually one of the ways we can shift our brain’s patterns and the connections it makes. And, for those of us who are believers, intentional gratitude is especially important in noticing where God is active in our lives.
We all go through tough times, and moments when it feels like God is not near. Yet, we can always spend a few moments and search for things (small and big) to give thanks for. A friendly hello and a smile from a stranger. A delicious meal. Your favourite parking space being open. The gift of breath and life.
May God bless you abundantly, and help you to see all the ways you are being given grace this week.
Mother Amanda