Sometimes seeing the world in a different way helps us get through a challenge and sometimes challenging what’s normal is the way. When I was growing up we were taught to sit still and be quiet. Children were seen and not heard. Prayer was by rote and meaningless to my young mind, and we did what we were told. Our Father who art in Heaven, was mumbled every night with my hands clasped under my chin. As we grew into young people with hormonal worries and relationship struggles, our prayers became pleas; Help me God, was how mine often began. And then another evolution came as an adult, when we were able to see outside of ourselves, when faced with the injustice of the world, God help them, or God help us all.

In the Bible Jesus teaches us to pray, and he gifts us the Lord’s Prayer. But he also gifts us instruction of how to pray and when. In the lampoon like parable of the Widow and the unjust Judge we are taught the act of active prayer. We are taught that Jesus may be a while returning to us, but that in that meanwhile, God is listening and keen to answer our pleas for justice. We are not meant to sit quietly and wait, but instead to be like the widow: loud, persistent and intentional, to pray without ceasing, and be the squeaky wheel.

 Jenn Ashton

 

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One of the topics we discussed in this week’s bible study was the Samaritan leper’s gratitude for what had been done for him, and the question of whether gratitude was a ‘deep’ enough takeaway from this week’s lesson. Now, the theological depth these folks are capable of is indeed impressive, so I understand why the question was asked. And, by the end of the study, we had each concluded that to be more grateful for the moments of grace in our own lives was the most helpful takeaway for our own discipleship, so I think we answered the question – yes, it is!

I notice that when I begin a pattern of thinking, it often becomes a road I travel on for some time. Which can be good or bad, depending on what exit I’ve taken! For example, if I have been through a few unfortunate events within a short time frame, I might now be more likely to notice the other disappointments and roadblocks in my life. Whereas, if I have had a few back-to-back moments of grace or joyful serendipity, I am more likely to notice the other smooth roads and unexpected moments of beauty in my life.

The point is, our brains are designed to notice patterns; they seek coherence, stability, and structure. So, what we tell them to notice, they will notice more of, whether negative or positive. Gratitude (for all its modern cultural cliché) is actually one of the ways we can shift our brain’s patterns and the connections it makes. And, for those of us who are believers, intentional gratitude is especially important in noticing where God is active in our lives.

We all go through tough times, and moments when it feels like God is not near. Yet, we can always spend a few moments and search for things (small and big) to give thanks for. A friendly hello and a smile from a stranger. A delicious meal. Your favourite parking space being open. The gift of breath and life.

May God bless you abundantly, and help you to see all the ways you are being given grace this week.

Mother Amanda

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