I remember awhile back, there was a whole movement on social media declaring that the offering of one’s ‘thoughts and prayers’ was no longer an acceptable response to those who were grieving or suffering in any capacity. On some level, I can understand the core of this complaint; after all, we have probably all been on the receiving end of spiritual (or secular) platitudes, and if so, we know firsthand exactly how ‘helpful’ that can be. I think most people genuinely mean well; it’s just that there are so few who are taught how to sit with someone in their discomfort without trying to fix it or make it feel better quickly. And, of course, we are all hard wired to want to do practical things like bring people casseroles, and ensure their kids are taken care of, and maybe even help them fold some laundry, or take them for coffee. All of those things are good and holy, and we should do them.

And yet, I fundamentally do not agree that praying for someone is not helpful. What indeed do we think we are supposed to do as Christians, if not pray?!? Of course, we have to back up our words with actions, and most people can sense when someone doesn’t really believe in the efficacy of the prayers they are offering. But prayer is not a backup plan or a last resort when we cannot think of anything ‘useful’ to do. Prayer is literally asking God to care for someone in the way they most need to be cared for, (whilst admitting we don’t always know what that is), and trusting God to respond to the needs of the world and the people God loves more than anyone else can.

We do not need to know HOW God answers prayer; we simply need to believe that somehow, God does, and somehow, prayer changes things. Prayer matters, because it connects us with the heart of God who is always inspiring our prayers; it joins us with the work of God which is always ongoing, and of which we are a part.

On this celebration of the Assumption of the Blessed Virgin Mary, let us also remember that we can ask for Our Lady’s prayers, too: she who loves and is beloved of our very own Lord.

Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners, now and at the hour of our death. Amen.

Mother Amanda

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Richard Hooker, the sixteenth century Anglican theologian, wrote that Scripture shows that the material world both points to, and is entirely inhabited by, the spiritual world. He considered the sacraments as the perfect manifestation of the inter-penetration of spirit and matter, describing them as the “outward and visible sign of an inward and spiritual grace.” In today’s Gospel, Jesus begins what will be a long teaching on the meaning of the Eucharist, that began with the physical example of this spiritual grace in the feeding of the five thousand.

In the Eucharist, Christians stand or kneel before a sacrificial altar; where we consume what we believe is the body and blood of the one we acknowledge as the incarnation of God. This act already destabilises consensus reality about what things are, and what they represent. What we are saying is that, just as our daily meals supply us with physical energy to function as embodied beings; this sacramental meal is providing us with an equally potent source of energy essential for life. Moreover, the meal is a veritable bottomless cornucopia. “Whoever comes to me will never hunger, and whoever believes in me will never thirst.”

The power of love is made possible through the bread of life and the cup of salvation wherein dwells the incarnate God, of whom we partake at the Eucharist. We do well to remember and respect the power of this sacrament to name the truth, and thus defy the lie that what we see is what we get. There is more. The poet, James Broughton, wrote that “the greatest enemy of the soul is the literal mind.” As long as we choose a literal way of seeing our lives and responding to the world around us, we will always see it as lacking – because such an understanding is based on a theology of scarcity. The Eucharist is the gate into a new interpretation, a true understanding of the way things really are: abundant, vibrant, and spiritual.

Jesus tells us that he is food and drink for the world – capable, in his body, of supplying the spiritual energy needs of all creation for all time. That food and drink of life is love. And love requires a response. Unrequited love is squandered love. But if we pledge to return the love we have been freely offered here, we promise an unlimited source of energy for the world. Energy which has the power to shift us from a path of greed, waste, and consumption towards a path of sharing, compassion and care.

Father Neil Fernyhough

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